I wonder, sometimes, what is “too much.” Sometimes everything feels like that. Sometimes nothing. Today my husband called me in the middle of the day – that’s surprising because at work he can’t typically call me. But today he was driving from one location to another and had the time. The problem is that more […]

Are there archives of old newspapers? I’ve been wondering what writing looked like pre-ai. It feels like everything reads like ai now. Even substack a community that is theoretically full of writings also reads like ai. Then I started thinking maybe that was my own personal bias? Maybe I wanted everything to read like ai […]

The 3 Bonus Things I’m Prioritizing for the Next Year in My 30s (and How I’m Planning Around Them Each Week) *Also – please remember that everything doesn’t have to happen all at once. Things are able to go slow when necessary. It doesn’t have to be 3 times a day it can be 3 […]

What does it mean to gentle parent ourselves? As you read this story you might ask yourself what does this have to do with the question: What does it mean to gentle parent ourselves? but I promise it does! Yesterday, I dropped everything to drive to Sequoia. I did it because I had been influenced […]

My parents made some mistakes when I was growing up. But they also did lots of things right. And one thing that they did very very right is that my mom never taught me to be smaller. She never taught me to take up less space. In fact, when I was actively trying to make […]